Have a summer holiday, the son comes back home to live in, the nest is in his bedroom upstairs all day long. 

' do not know either what the son is doing? Whether ' one day, I say to Mrs.. ' let me go up and look. ' 

 ' you must not go! ' madam stops me: ' so as to not make angry. ' 

 ' why? "Because messy with the kennel. ' 

 ' true one! ' I stretch the tongue: ' do not know whether he is so haphazard too in the dormitory. "Messy too! ' 

 ' too arbitrarily? Does not he have a girlfriend? ' I say: ' the girlfriend goes, will not help him to tidy up? ' 

  Madam smiles: ' I have asked early, do you know how the son answer? He says the girlfriend's room is even messier than his. ' 

' oh! There could not young people's room. ' a friend listens to me complaining, pat me:

' rest assured! Wait for him to get married, it will be better naturally, it is good too not to be good, otherwise on being real no good. ' 

 ' what meaning is this? ' I do not understand. 

' very briefly, as he enters the society, often a friend comes to home. Someone comes, can not tidy up?

Even if no one comes, people will go to work, busy with outside, mood must be messy, came back home and only hoped freshly and coolly,

If see again that it is messy to roll, two people must turn over. ' 

He this go wrong one point,it go pieces of relative house one day I, there is at odds couple,

The husband moves me to inside, open the bedroom door, ask loudly: ' you have a look! Family! The ones that have like this? ' 

 His wife hears outside, draws the throat and shouts at once:

' I from young right away so, why do not you dislike me?  Do it until today, see my place pleasing to the eye. '

 The husband has been stopped up quickly, have stopped for several seconds, roar back:

' this for the moment too, he for the moment too! You are not a big young lady, you are madam! ' 

Whether ' that you is it let Mrs. to go right away, ' madam shouts back. ' I am still a big young lady now! ' 

I have an old friend, having divorced recently, the reason is very abstract - -Madam dislikes him too ' love now '. 

 Just, my friend, has followed me for crossing the halfth century, when I have never seen him not love now. 

 Primary school, he for show girl student now, can carry the whole ' pupil's dictionary ';

He goes to the church in the middle school ' now ', need more manily than pastors with the red bluish-green strokes of a Chinese character on the Holy Bible;

The university, he studies pictures with me, can not catch up with the worker sleeping whole night, only in order to make me surprised he can draw fast and well.

Entering the society, he performs the TV play, when not acting in a play, it is amused so that everybody is staring at him now that move in the street. 

  He and his former wife know in the street. 

' he is a licorice root personage, he is in the group, dynamic. '

Before remembering 20 years, his girlfriend says to me before marriage: ' he talent,have. ' 

 Talent of him, so can absorb those remarkable girlfriend to the bedroom from the road, become his wife. 

Just, before long, his love became his mortal wound unexpectedly now. It knows to be ' this for the moment too, he for the moment too '. 

 Because has become the husband, should be experienced and prudent, no longer love it now vivaciously? 

Madam does not punish, the husband may complain, a wonderful one, if wife is it punish to like too, husband might blame too. 

A friend always pours out one's woes to me recently: ' now! I have not thought that there is a wife, only think that there is a Philippine servant,

Having finished suppers every day, she can spend two hours scrubing in the kitchen, have finish scrubing, has collapsed tiredly too, has had a bath and gone to bed by oneself. 

Did you know finally? Coming home from work, there is not the time to have a word with her.

Even have a holiday, it is not idle, the east sweep, the west wipe, is it well, is it go out to sweep me as rubbish some day to do. ' 

Being seized with terror, I smile and ask: ' often listen to you praising your girlfriend and liking cleanliness more before I only remember more than ten years,

Talk about her home, finding her family spotless, anything is arranged methodically.

Also say you always have sensitive nose, but it is all good to reach her home. I ask you, have you said? ' he nods.

 ' then you have married her, and more than ten years till now, the nose is not sensitive, is that right? ' I ask again. 

 He nods again.

 ' at that time, you think it is her advantage that there is a clean addiction, why think again now it is a shortcoming? '

I ask: ' change by her, or your change? ' 

People change always, he too for the moment this for the moment? 

Everybody is always changing, even if the health does not change, feel that may change.

Can be compared to it at the railway station, other cars have moved, but you think that is being moved by one's own car.

When one's own car moves, thought by mistake another car was moving. 

 Everything does not change, the possibility changed is feeling! 

 How unpredictable people are! 

 Rao woman of a goblin who attracts you, after becoming your wife, that goblin Rao may be laughed at for being excessive and lowpriced by you. 

One is appreciated for the public-spirited person by you, after becoming your husband, it is easy to be may be chosen as by you and in charge of other people's business. 

A bold and unconstrained and natural friend, may be blamed ' not make a clear distinction between public and private interests ' by you after becoming your staff member. 

A pair of lovers loving each other, after getting married, everything change, but may ' in love and easy, difficult ',

Make all advantage before marriage, turn defect, the other side of eyes into. 

 Why not think about it, why did you take a fancy to him originally? 

 Why not think about it, no if he is really not free and easy, no longer neat, no longer sets people laughing, the lofty sentiments again   

 He you the he in the heart originally still? 

 When you each others said the other side has changed, whether know to two people and does not both change,

The ones that have changed are only that kind of feeling, that feelings, then divide the tacit understanding?

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